January 16, 2008

Let's talk about SEX!

Ok, can we talk?

Guys, does the woman in your life complains about not wanting to have sex? Is her head always hurting?

Well, the truth is men and women veiw sex (love-making) in different ways. Men are usually stimulated by what the see and what they can touch. With, 80% of women being stimulated not only physically, but emotionally and mentally. She  could want sex and is just emotionally and physically drained.

It's not natural for a healthy woman not to want sex. So, you have to ask yourself, "what can you do  to improve the situation, (NO, NOT CHEATING)"?

Try tending to some of her needs. Wait a minute, don't get me wrong, you have needs also, but someone has to start first. So, why not be the initiator?

Don't just make love to her physically, take some time to make love to her mind, all day, if that's what it takes. Think about helping with chores around the house, tend to the kids, run her a nice bath and help with dinner. Or, better than that make preparing dinner a team effort. This will help her feel appreciated and could bring a closer bond between the two of you.

And, when it's time for bed, you won't have to ask for it, because she'll be all over you!

Remember, when you put some of her needs first. She'll make your needs her #1 priorty.